Showing posts with label BGSU. Show all posts
Showing posts with label BGSU. Show all posts

Monday, January 16, 2012

Alive in the Moment...

Sylvia Hall

"If you look deeply into the palm of your hand, you will see your parents and all generations of your ancestors. All of them are alive in this moment. Each is present in your body. You are the continuation of each of these people."
By Thich Nhat Hanh 

My grandmother, Sylvia Hall-Hepler born October 14, 1901 -the anchor of our family is within me. She resides in the resilience and unassuming strength that drives my personal human spirit beyond life’s early stumbling blocks.
Sylvia standing (on right) with her siblings
As I delve deeply into the six acquired crates (read here) of old photos, letters and newspaper clippings that document people and events in my family linking back to my great-great grandmother I’m faced with an altered interpretation of family ties.  The attainment of these commemorations has taken me down memory lane; in addition, it has invariably linked points of information and answered questions although presenting other enquiries.


I’d like to begin with an apology to my grandmother. You see, in past conversations about obtaining my teaching and master’s degree, I proclaimed to all I spoke with that I was the first in my family to go to college; it turns out that is not exactly true.



Grandma's graduation announcement (click to enlarge)

On June 13, 1918 my grandmother graduated from Tiffin High School. In viewing her past report cards she excelled in spelling and literature; so I must come by my love of reading and writing naturally which makes me proud! Grandma didn’t do so well in U.S. History, Chemistry or Math. Hah! I guess I am her granddaughter; those are the subjects I could truly do without and never made the best of grades in those areas.

Her 9th-12th grade report cards (click to enlarge)
It seems when my alma mater, Bowling Green State University was founded in 1914 it began as Bowling Green State Normal College. Tuition was free in those early years and the college offered a 1-year short course for rural teachers which my grandmother was a part. A letter dated Aug. 24, 1920 to her uncle my grandma wrote of the courses she was taking and was soon to leave the rigors of the university to teach in Rockaway, Ohio.

School of children in front of the one room school house in Rockaway, Ohio.

To my sister Dawn and me, both ended up in teaching, the passing of the torch was without fanfare although nostalgia embraces tight the early conception.
Grandma was a tough durable woman who holds my heart at the core of her being. She remains in my nucleus as she whispers endorsements through similar likes, dislikes as well as choice of vocation. I clutch this melancholy softly keeping her alive within the palm of my hand.
"Other things may change us, but we start and end with family."
by Anthony Brandt



Friday, April 22, 2011

"S" is for Sorority Sisters....

A to Z Challenge:
ABC's of My Life...

our unity is shared by t-shirts designed by our faithful leader and former president, Leslie.

 . . . as the plane turns and begins its descent I’m filled with questions and wonderings galore; will I recognize everyone? What if they don’t like me? … and, I wonder if anyone has changed drastically, or if through our mid-years the young version of each of us remains within.





...the early arrivals...

 I bounce from the aircraft and race to the luggage locale where screams of delight rip through the Tucson airport announcing to the world, the ADPi sisters of Bowling Green State University; late 70’s-early 80’s have reunited. What a joy to behold!

For a moment, I stand back and gaze at the dance of coming together; our eyes skipping from person to person as we catch familiar gestures, voice dialects and music of laughter that reigns memorable. We chatter and listen intently determining to freeze indelible images to our mind that which would combine old and new recollections.


As each individual reaches the destination at the hotel, nicknames are spewed into the air announcing their arrival with shouts of glee and merriment. “Joan-baby’, ‘Cook’ and ‘Fitch’ to name a few…


 The extended weekend is crammed with events as well as careful considerate thoughts of those not there-- Stephanie who has since passed away and the plethora of sisters unable to join us in our festivities such as:


...helping the brave firemen capture a rattlesnake...

...a cook-out complete with video of our 'younger' years and a conference call to a small group that emerged together in Ohio...

...congregating at the hot tub...

...attending a local street fair...

...hiking the canyon...


...tearing up the links at LaPaloma Golf Club...
 
..dancing the night away as the DJ played ALL our favorite songs including, 'We are Family- I got all my sisters with me!'...
...Littles and Bigs were reunited....

...best of friends were together once again...
We all became professional photographers...


as we attempted to solidify and commit each activity, each encounter, each going-on to memory.

Regardless of the direction our departing flights took us to our place in the world, be it Florida, Ohio, Texas, we will remain attached by the emotional encounter of our days together…not only those days in March, 2010 but the college days we shared; good, bad and indifferent we remain sisters.

Our differences may never go away, but neither, for me, will our song.”
by Elizabeth Fishel

Saturday, April 2, 2011

"B" is for book, buy, blogs, boys and BGSU...


*book and buy: I received an e-mail late last night to preview the website that allows the selling of my book: Life through the Eyes of Hurricane: Doggie-Dog! Isn’t that wonderful news? It actually brought tears to my eyes knowing that this dream is coming to fruition…stay tuned!

* blogs: starting my blog was one of the most incredible things I have done. I have met a number of awesome people and shared in countless experiences I might not have been privy to; life on a prairie in Nebraska, the Iditarod in Alaska, life in the Pacific Northwest as well as Ethiopia and India. Thank you to all of you for including me in your life!

*boys: my husband, Scott, son Nicholas and dog Hurricane. My boys take such good care of me in their loving and nurturing of me. When I had the lump removed from my tongue on Monday, Nicholas gave me a foot and leg rub, covered me with a blanket and lay beside me as he gently stroked my face. Scott continually amazes me with his tenderness and protectiveness in addition to his willingness to cook, clean, grocery shop so I can cultivate my writing. Hurricane, well he keeps me entertained always with his antics.

*BGSU-which stands for Bowling Green State University; where I graduated with my undergraduate degree in teaching special education. I’m proud of my alma mater. Go Falcons!


Happy ‘B’ Day and ‘C’ you on Monday; Sunday is an obligatory ‘off’ day!